Hi Everyone!
So my shower is in the beginning of August, so I know I have a lot of time to mull this over, but I did want everyone's advice:
So FH and I decided our wedding is kid free, with the exception of the flower girl and ring bearer, who are our niece and nephew. I have two cousins who have children, ranging in age from 4-10. My question is, would it be considered rude to invite the children to the bridal shower, even though they are not invited to the wedding? I know the general etiquette for bridal showers is not invite any someone who isn't invited to the wedding, but these are children who would be attending with their mothers, who I wouldn't want to inconvenience with finding childcare twice if they didn't have to! One of my aunts said it wasn't rude, since I am including them in a sense, but would hate to offend my cousins. We have some fun games planned so I think it would be for the kids!
Any advice is appreciated!