Bridal Shower or Wedding shower

A bridal shower is all women and a wedding shower is for both genders. You should do whichever the host(s) offer to throw.

We did a wedding shower because my family still hadn't met yet his yet (only is mom met my family previously) and we wanted to bring everyone together before the wedding. We still decorated the house and played shower games. It was a ton of fun and everyone got to met before the wedding. Do whatever you guys want. Our wedding only has 46 guest so we invited everyone to the shower and majority showed!

View Quoted Comment Oh that’s a good idea! I was only asking bc of the same reason, however, we are inviting many people. probably about 300. not sure how many will be able to attend the wedding yet

We did a bridal shower because my FH flat out refused to be a part of anything lol. He's also the same guy who hates being dragged to kids' birthday parties or baby showers.

I also wanted a day to myself to see all of my girls; relaxing and having a fun afternoon together.

View Quoted Comment Just talked to mine & he said he’d go for me hahaha. i know that’s code for him not being eager to go if it was only up to him, so i’m in vote for bridal shower too!