My mother and sister have asked me what I would like to do as far as a bridal shower goes. While a dinner/brunch would be fun and appreciated if that's what they really want to do, it's not really my "style." I don't expect anyone to shower me and would much rather just spend time with the ladies in our families doing something fun like Painting with a Twist. (Plus I think FH's Aunt is planning something more traditional...)
Would it be appropriate for each person coming to pay for their own painting and we supply the wine? Or would that be rude?