Hi all! I’m a bridesmaid in a wedding this year and we’ve been given dates for their main events (shower, rehearsal, bach party, etc) but no other details. My fiancé and I received a wedding invitation from one of his good childhood friends. The bridal shower and wedding are both on the same day located 2 hours away from each other. I reached out to the bride (she is involved in planning it) asking what time her shower would be at. I explained the situation to her as well because I would like to attend both and in order to make it to the ceremony on time I would need to leave by 2pm. She said she is unsure of what time but it may begin anywhere from 1-2pm. I know traditionally showers are often in the late morning/early afternoon. I plan of giving her a gift regardless and I will show up even if it’s just for a half an hour. I would like to also go to the wedding because we will definitely invite this couple to our wedding.
My question is, is it okay to miss the shower if the times end up conflicting?
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