My MOH wants to host my bridal shower in my hometown—which is about 10 hours from where I currently live. It makes the most sense since most of my friends and family are there but our wedding is in another state entirely. we are about 5 months from my wedding and the thought of trying to find time to make a special trip there for just a shower makes me stressed. I tried to get it over the holidays when it wouldn’t be a burden for me to take time off work, etc. But my MOH is busy on the days/weekend I looked at and I’m also trying to plan my bachelorette party which will be out of town too.
A t this point I’ve somewhat said I’d rather not do a shower. But I feel like I’m being rude and she asked that I reconsider. Any advice?
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