Hello fellow brides,
Of the 39 people I invited, 15 people attended my bridal shower. FULL DISCLAIMER: I had an amazing time and was very very happy at the event. Those 15 were all close friends and family, but still...I know it's a busy time of year, but I am an older bride and my bridesmaids gave people plenty of notice. That said, I invited all females on my wedding guest list, so it had lots of wives of male friends, distant cousins, and family that lived far away that we knew would not attend (like 7 people).
Also, is it customary to send a gift or card if you can't attend? Several people didn't send me anything, and honestly, I have sent a card or gift to every shower I have ever been invited to, whether I went or not. What do you guys think? I am a nice person and have no enemies I am aware of lol.
thank you!