Due to some prior family drama (divorced parents, etc) my father's side of the family decided that they were going to throw me a separate bridal shower and boycott the one that I had assisted with planning and paying for (and actually wanted to attend).. I was pretty bummed initially, but just decided to carry out the initial plans anyways.
There were only 10 people in attendance, so we had a ton of leftover food and drinks but I think it worked out for the best - I felt like I was actually able to talk and spend time with each group, so I didn't feel guilty for neglecting anyone!
Advice on politely responding to the "guests" next weekend at the forced shower if they mention this one? I think it was an honest mistake, made worse by lack of communication, but I'm still a little frustrated.
Down to 32 days, now!