My cousin is throwing me a bridal shower here in NC. It will be women coming to the wedding who are from the Raleigh/Durham area. Most of these people are FHs family and friends' wives. I don't know them well and some I don't know at all! But we're inviting them. This will be my 3rd shower (at one point I was having none now 3! Auugh!) But I digress.
My point for this post is to ask how to word my cousin's desire to get guest to give me gifts on the theme "The pampered bride" (think massage, pedicure, make up, etc) and to dress in my wedding colors which are gold, cognac, champagne, and chocolate.
Any suggestions would help. She is not very creative so asked me and I came up completely blank. Suggestions?