I need help deciding if I should invite them or not! So one of my best friends from college is invited to my wedding along with her girlfriend. I like them both (obviously) but the dilemma I'm having is whether or not I should invite them to the shower. When I fist got engage my friends reached out and congratulated me, but since that point I've not really heard from either of them. They're both kind of flaky people (very hippie-esque) and so I'm considering not inviting them to the shower because they probably wouldn't come anyways, but I don't want to share photos later and them get their feelings hurt. I've reached out to them a couple times to see how they're doing and also help them find an Airbnb for the wedding (there's a nascar race the same day as the wedding so not a lot of lodging options) and never got a response. Just want some advice on whether or not to invite them.
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