Hello! Alright having an issue. First let's start by saying I am not traditional nor do I like surprises. Being said we were supposed to have a Jack and Jill wedding party instead of a bridal party, but no thanks to COVID 19 #thankscovid19 we are going back to a bridal party and per NYS restrictions, I can only have 50 people there. FMIL keeps saying you don't pay anything toward the bridal party and you don't plan it. My mom is saying do what you want. My bridal party (the bridesmaids) say do what you want and we will help where we can. Mind you we have to do it during the winter since our wedding is April 2021 so, I have to find something indoors. First question is who or how do I limit the guest list for a bridal party and second question should I be able to plan out my own bridal party?