Yesterday my MOH and some of my bridesmaids hosted me my bridal shower. I was so nervous for it because every time I’ve had parties for myself I’ve never had good turnouts. This one unfortunately turned out the same way as much as I was hoping it didn’t. We had maybe 10-15 people show which made me a little sad and no one from FH side of the family showed either. All in all everything came out beautiful and I had fun with the people who did show. I’m extremely grateful for the people who planned this special day for me. Here are a few pics. The last one is of me and all my bridal party. So glad they were all able to be here!
First of all, I had to raise you know what to get the 👰🚿. The two MoHs were apparently under the impression that since they couldn’t attend that dates that I provided, that they didn’t have to plan it.
Then, people either didn’t RSVP, or did, but didn’t show up.
I was not asked what I wanted to have in regards to food or 🎂.
Just because YOU like 🍰 with Pudding filling, doesn’t mean that EVERYONE does.
NOT everyone can or wants to eat Buffalo and/or FRIED 🍗, Macaroni and 🧀, and 🥐.
I had a good time, but still, if the party is to celebrate me, then shouldn’t we have what I like?
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My MOH and bridesmaids who planned were really good with asking me what I wanted and even let me make the guest list which I thought was really nice of them. I was not upset with the actual party I was just bummed that we sent out invites and people who I thought would show, didn’t. In the end I’ve come to realize that it’s not how many people show it’s who shows that matters.
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Thank you, we had fun that’s all that matters. I was upset at first, but I’m not going to let the little things get to me being so close to the big day.