Anyone else not doing the traditional party stuff for a wedding? My fiancé and I didn’t have an engagement party by choice and I’m not doing a bridal shower or bachelorette party/trip by choice (MAYBE we’ll have dinner or something). It’s just not really us, you know? We’re not the kind of people that want attention on us like that. We’re not expecting to be doted on by our wedding party or our family just because we’re getting married. We don’t feel the need for endless attention or the “spotlight”. It doesn’t feel right to expect that of people. Wedding day is enough for us
Anyone else feel this way? I feel like I’m kind of alone in this
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