I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately while planning our wedding. I moved out to be with my fiancé and on his family’s small dairy farm. I’ve made some friends but I can’t say I’m super close to any of them. I’ve only been out here a year. I can’t decide if I want a bridal shower or not. I mean I do! But… my family is across the country including my MOH… one of my BM hasn’t been to responsive to me lately /shrug/ and all of my childhood friends are over 3 hrs away back in my home town. I can’t help feel like having a bridal shower without MY main people isn’t what I want. I don’t love focus of attention let alone surrounded by people that I’m not sure really would want to be there. Also do you keep the shower guest list to those invited to the wedding? (In case I decide to do it) I can’t help but feel like I would just be choosing to put stress on someone to have to go through with planning it.
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