Bride and Groom - getting ready together??

I find it incredibly romantic that you could share space while getting ready. The pictures would be amazing! You could take shots that show you each trying to peek at each other - or hide. It could really add some unexpected magic to your day! Always turn a negative into a positive!!! *His family could always come to your house to help him too! Then if they aren't reliable it won't matter.

We most definitely are getting ready together

Why don't you book somewhere just for him, or somewhere he and his family can get ready, so he doesn't have to worry about it?

my fiance and I booked accommodation for all our bridal party (including his family) and so we both know what is happening and have control over the bookings - and his family aren't even disorganised!

On the other hand there's nothing wrong with getting ready together if you don't mind seeing each other on the day, and that's what ends up being most practical and financially sensible for you guys!

I agree with this. I would never rely on flaky people for something this important, so he should just book his own hotel room. But also, of course it's fine for you both to get ready in the same house if that works for you. There are no actual rules other than doing what you both want.

My FH and I will be getting ready at our home together. I'll be in our room, he will be out in the living room (because lets face it, guys take 2 minutes to get ready lol). We will be spending the night before together also. This is our wedding, we want to be together as much as possible.