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I suggested that we do something casual, like a cookout at a park, so that my family could contribute a dish to pass. She said she didn’t anything outside, so I found a community center in a park.
After she checked out the park, and told my fiancé that it’s nice but that the bride has no say in these things. That this is not how it’s done. I’m actually really hurt by this, because if it’s not something I like, what’s the point? Am I wrong?