Okay so one of my friends is getting married in June of this year and I am her maid of honor. I have tried helping her plan as much as I can since I'm also planning my wedding which is in October.
This is the problem. She literally doesn't care about ANYTHING. I have given her multiple lists for her and her fiance to look over and start doing (since it's what THEY want) and she has barely done anything.
She JUST told us what she wants us to wear a couple weeks ago and when I went to order the dress, it wasn't available. She didn't care and said to just get whatever. Okay. She hasn't started on decorations, music for the ceremony, no officiant, has no plan on flowers, no wedding day schedule AT ALL, invitations are not made or ordered and rsvps need to be in by May 13, doesn't care about what she does with her hair or makeup and said we can look however we want, and it's literally as if she doesn't care about her wedding day.
I met with her the other night and got stressed out for her and she laughed and thought it was HILARIOUS that I'm more stressed about her wedding than she is.
I am at a total loss and she expects me to plan her wedding for her when I told her that I can't do that for her in the very beginning. At this point I don't even want to be in her wedding.
If she doesn't care about the most special day of her life, why should I? Someone please help me figure out what to do. I can't handle all of this and she thinks it's just so funny to see me stress like this for her. I am losing it!!! 😭
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