Hello! We just recently booked our wedding in April for September 2021! I know it's insane😳. I would love to hear some opinions on my bridesmaids situation. I am not having traditional bridesmaids, no dress requirements, no shower---I would just like a chill night out (maybe paint and sip) and to ask for one of my best friends to give a speech. I was a bridemaid for 2 of my friends weddings recently but idk how to ask-they won't be standing next to me in the church and they won't have a bouquet (I was thinking my sis in laws will have bouquets and maybe I can buy my closest friends a matching hair piece or have all of them wear a hair piece for pics later in the day). My question is, am I not recognizing them enough? Like am I doing too little for what I am asking of them? Should I call them something other than BM? Also for a BM proposal I figured I would either just explain the situation or print out a personalized cards with pics from our childhood explaining the situation...idk I'm pretty lost. I would like to give them a thank you gift also but that would be after the wedding.
Please let me know your thoughts!