Bridemaidzilla? What’s your opinion?

Hello Everyone,
Please share your input and what would you do.
I’m pretty irritated and ready to fully call off all bridesmaids and replace them with a bridesman (one of my very good guy friends).Our wedding is set on June 11 2025.I have this one bridesmaid who complained about hair and makeup costs which was priced at $108/hair, $108/makeup and $30/lashes with gratuity covered under this fee. So after she complained I offered and agreed to pay for the hair of all bridal party members, but require them to pay for their own dress priced between $75-150. I’m asking each bridesmaid to pick their own dress in forest green but it must be more conservative (AKA NO DEEP V CUT NECKS OR BOOBS FALLING OUT)…So after offering that this one bridesmaid in particular made a statement/question of “Is it okay with you if I thrift shop my dress if i can find it in a similar shade? (forest green was selected)”
Do you think this is ridiculous of her to ask or am i asking too much? I’m only asking the bridal party to cover $200-$250 in fees with the inclusion of shoes with their dresses.
I’m not receiving an engagement party or bachelorette party etc that i’m not paying for in full….so i really don’t know if this is something i should just kick her out of…i don’t feel like i should have to tell her this is ridiculous you need to stop dictating, as i hate confrontation. Another thing she made a statement today when i made bridesmaid hair request from each member she wants a dramatic and exquisite intricate hairdo with lots of braids etc….I wanted a viking style and wanted my bridesmaid to keep theirs simple and classy with a tucked low bun or braided low bun nearly done…she commented ew too Amish…and proceeded to send me very intricate bridal style hair….What do you all think? should i just ditch her fully from the wedding party? any alternative solutions…this girls whole family will be there, i even included her grandma in the bridal party as my matron of honor ( which she also tried taking the title of and named herself!)WTH DO I DO 🤭