Brides and Grooms with children -how are you involving them?

My fifteen year old daughter is my MOH and our four year old daughter is our FG.

FH is having two different songs played at the reception one for him and our four year old to have a daddy daughter dance and a second for a step-father/step-daughter dance.

I my FH has 3 that we have full custody and it wasn't even a question about if they would be apart or not. We are having the 2 oldest be jr groomsmen and his daughter is going to be a jr bride.. she has a dress with the same material as mine and she will be carrying the EXACT but way smaller flowers! along with the tree ceremony instead of the unity candle.. well... we are still in between on that.. its either the tree ceremony or letting go of butterflies as our unity.. but one or the other.. also we are moving the 3 kids up very close to us so they are standing right by us because they will be apart of everything we do..

I forgot to add that we are even taking a FAMILY honeymoon AFTER our honeymoon

Our 5 kids, his two and my 3, are in our wedding party...his son still hasn't quite committed due to his mother's angst with the whole thing, but hopefully he will. Our kids are 17, 21, 21, 23, and 24.

~Michelle

My FH has two little girls who we are designating as our flower girls...

My daughter is 11 and FH son is 6. They will be a junior bridesmaid and groomsmen. My daughter has been a flower girl several times and is "over it" as she says. LOL.