Being an older bride getting married for the first time I'm having a hard time getting family and friends involved in planning. I really appreciate all the posts on here and what everyone shares.
The FH and I are planning really a week to remember of a destination wedding. When we ask those coming what they want to do, eat or drink we get "what ever you think". My MIL even told me 40 years ago she only spent 300 on a wedding. All I need is a cake, a dress and a minister. My FH was married in a court house wedding the first time around and is looking forward to a real wedding.
Does anyone else feel like they are being pressured to have a basic wedding no frills just because they are older?