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Bridesmaid boyfriend

Cindy, on October 1, 2021 at 9:47 AM Posted in Planning 2 11

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One of my bridesmaids has been dating a guy for over 2 years . My fiancé and I like him but he gets drunk quiet often . My bridesmaid even told us he got drunk once and peed outside her parents house . (I think that’s what scarred me ) I understand we’re not all ourselves when we drink but I’m nervous about him . Our concern is him getting hammered and acting a fool . Do I address this or do I just let them be. We are having an open bar reception

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Latest activity by Samantha, on October 6, 2021 at 9:45 AM

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Sarah · on October 1, 2021 at 9:50 AM
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Assuming you have licensed bartenders serving your guests, I’d let it be. Bartenders know when to cut people off.
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Cindy · on October 1, 2021 at 10:13 AM
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Omg I honestly didn’t even think of that !!
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Cindy · on October 1, 2021 at 10:13 AM
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Thank you for saving me a awkward convo . I know we’re all adults
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Givemeallthepups · on October 1, 2021 at 11:31 AM
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If there's someone that you're worried about the wedding, you can also specifically ask the bartenders to monitor that person. I was in a wedding recently and knew the bride was concerned about a particular guest. I asked the bartenders to give her little pours for the rest of the night.
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Cindy · on October 1, 2021 at 12:22 PM
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Great idea! Thank you so much , I will be def doing this
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CountryBride · on October 1, 2021 at 12:49 PM
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Maybe you can reach out to the bartender and ask them to water down his drinks or they can cut him off
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Cindy · on October 1, 2021 at 12:51 PM
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These are all so great ! Thank you so much
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Samantha · on October 2, 2021 at 9:49 AM
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We have the same issue with my MIL. Talk to your wedding planner/day of coordinator/bartenders and explain the situation so they can be extra careful about serving this person. My MOH discussed this (with my groom) and we agreed that if I give her "the signal", she's to tell the bar to stop serving MIL drinks.
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Janae · on October 2, 2021 at 1:18 PM
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Yes!! And you can warn your bartender about this particular person. Although it might be easier to say something to your bridesmaid as well.
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Cindy · on October 6, 2021 at 9:44 AM
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These are such great tips ! Thank you
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Samantha · on October 6, 2021 at 9:45 AM
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This isn't something you need to worry about on your wedding day. I hope things work out!
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