Hi everyone,
I grew up in Kansas City and was pretty close with my family until we moved when I was 10 years old to California. While living in California we weren’t very close with my family back in Kansas City and I didn’t see them for several years. Now that I am an adult, I moved back to kids city two years ago to reconnect with family. So far we haven’t been very close and I don’t get invited over most of the time when they are hanging out. I don’t really blame them much because we were gone for a very long time. I’m getting married now and I am considering having my cousins in my bridal party. The only issue is we are very close and I hardly see them and I would bet money that they wouldn’t Have me as a bridesmaid if it was their turn to get married. The only reason I’m considering having them as bridesmaids is because I’m trying to repair the relationship and I think having them as bridesmaids might help. But at the same time should I have them as bridesmaids if I don’t feel very close or excepted by them? They are still my family and they’re nice when I’m around but I don’t feel very welcomed or included most of the time. My other issue is that my two friends that I would have in my wedding are from California and I’m not 1000% sure that they will actually make it out to Kansas City for the ceremony. So if I don’t have my cousins as bridesmaids I might be left with no one
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