So I have 2 best friends…one I consider my best friend as I’ve known her for 20 years and the other one I met through her and have known for about 10. We consider us a trio however we have individual relationships with each other..So I have always envisioned having my 4 sisters and best friend as my bridal party…I’ve never wanted a big one at all… since I’ve been engaged my friend who I have known for 10 years has basically implied she’s in the wedding on multiple occasions and truth be told I wasn’t planning on having her as a bridesmaid. It’s annoyed me a bit because she has caught me off guard on multiple occasions putting me in an awkward spot. The main reason i wasn’t going to include her is I think 5 is enough and my FH will have 5 on his side and I truly just wanted my sisters and my best friend who will be my MOH but another reason is she can be intense at times she tends to throw her being a wife and mother in our faces…she can be overbearing and overthinks in many social situations which leads her to be a bit passive aggressive. I do love her and we are very close however her personality can rub people the wrong way at times. I do plan on having her involved in a lot of other ways but I’m nervous in telling her she won’t be a bridesmaid….am I wrong for leaving her out? Or should I just suck it up and make room?
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