I have known my group of friends for several years now and even before my fiance proposed, I knew I would ask them to be in my wedding party. However, there was a huge rift in the group recently and it has basically split everyone apart. It turns out there is some huge animosity between two of the girls and their falling out was so bad that they cannot be in the same room together. Their SO's are still friends, but now people have taken sides and it has made everything so awkward.
So my question is: what do I do? I've been wanting everyone to be included in my wedding party for years and I'm devastated that they are having such issues. I understand both sides of the story and they are both entitled to their feelings. Should I invite them anyway and say "figure it out between yourselves"? Or should I just not have bridesmaids at all?
On a related note, my fiance recently told me he is uncomfortable with me asking his two sisters to be in my wedding party. He says it's weird to do so, no matter what I say. I love his sisters and they have already accepted me as family. I see their part in my wedding as a representation of two families becoming one, but he is extremely against it. How can I convince him to let me include his sisters? He agreed to have his brother as a groomsman but seems to be putting his foot down on this one issue. There are no family issues going on between them, but I'm concerned that my fiance doesn't want me to include his sisters.
