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Jolene
Just Said Yes September 2022

Bridesmaid gifts?

Jolene, on August 15, 2022 at 10:23 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10
Hi! What are you giving your bridesmaids as gifts?


I read online that you should aim to spend between $75-$150 a bridesmaid. Do you consider paying for their hair and makeup as part of that? I’m covering their beauty expense and I wanted to buy them all robes ($20-$30 each). Is that enough or should I get them something else?

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Latest activity by Holly, on August 16, 2022 at 1:10 PM
  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    I am paying for my wedding party’s hair, makeup and dresses/suits. I’m not including that as part of their gifts because these are all things for my event. I will be getting each of them gifts that have nothing to do with our wedding.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    That's super kind of you to pay for hair and makeup for your bridal party! I probably wouldn't count the robes as gifts, since they're really just used as props for your wedding photos. I would also avoid things that say "bridesmaid" or that have your wedding hashtag or wedding date on it. I don't think there's a right or wrong amount to spend either, totally depends on what you feel comfortable with. Gifts that aren't related to your wedding are a good idea, so that they'll enjoy them even after your wedding!
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  • Janet
    Expert October 2018
    Janet ·
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    I don't know where you got that number, but I don't think there is a typical amount for gifts. It's what you can afford and something that pertains to the specific person. Gifts are not usually one size fits all.

    Typically, anything that is used/gifted specifically for your wedding day are not considered "gifts". While nice and can be considered pampering, make-up and hair are per your vision for how you want them to look. Robes for getting ready photos, are for just that, your photos. It's very generous that you are letting them keep them and paying for it, but ultimately they are for your wedding event.

    Think about them as individuals vs a bridal party. Even something sentimental to each of them can be nice and affordable. Some bridesmaids like the spa kits (I personally do not), others like comfy items, and some like gift cards to their favorite shops. Think about what you would get them for their birthday

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  • Bailey
    Expert October 2023
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    I agree with Janet! I would try to stay away from the classic gifts and get them gifts they will genuinely enjoy using long after your wedding is over. Anything with bridesmaid on it is a no-go!

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    I paid for my bridesmaids' hair and makeup, and also got them satin pajama sets. I didn't consider these gifts because the hair and makeup were for my wedding and the pajama sets were basically photo props for getting ready. I would consider robes to be in that same category. I got them separate gifts (spent about $75 each) but I don't think there's a set amount that's recommended. It should be whatever you're comfortable with.

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  • R
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    You have gotten some really good advice above. As far the gifts go you can make them a fun gift basket, put in their fave snack/chocolates, bottle of wine, face mask, bubble bath, nail polish or gc for nails, lip scrub, hand lotions, candle, teas and coffees---things they love the gifts do not have to be identical. Some other ideas a gift card to their favorite restaurant or clothing store, a fun purse or beach bag, something pertaining to their hobbies, a jewelry box or travel jewelry roll and some fun earrings or a bracelet. Have fun putting the gifts together!

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  • Orianna
    Devoted December 2022
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    I'm actually starting to gather all of the stuff for mine now (I dont want to wait and get caught in the holiday rush and be missing things) and I'm trying to stay away from anything that says bridesmaid or MOH anywhere. I'm doing some monogramed items - including a tote bag that is where all their gifts are going to be put to give to them. I'm doing 3 gifts that they are all getting (the tote bag, a compact mirror with their name in the color of the dress they are wearing, and a travel make up case with their initials) and then a gift that is more specific to each lady based on who they are and what they love. I'm also gifting them a shirt to get ready in, a personalized champagne flute for the getting ready, and a necklace to wear at my wedding.

    I'm giving them the option to pitch in for hair and make up if they want to, but if not I'll be covering the cost for anyone who wants it.

    I think cost wise its whatever you feel comfortable spending. Its different for everyone. Everyone has different budgets, and different sized wedding parties! Long as it comes from the heart, it doesnt matter how much you spend.

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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
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    As others have stated, hair, makeup and robes are all for your event and photos. That's not really a gift for them. I would shop like it's their birthday, and get something unique to each person.

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    If that's your budget i think the best gift is to not make them pay for anything in order to be in your wedding. I don't need a robe i'll never wear or another tumbler or tote bag or whatever. I'd SO much rather not have to shell out $$ for a dress i'll never wear again or hair and makeup that's really for YOUR pictures. So my vote is always pay for the stuff so they don't have to and write them a really nice thank you note with a small token if you want (like $10 SBx gift card, etc)

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  • Holly
    Savvy September 2024
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    I only have a MOH and one other bridesmaid, so I am getting them a bottle of their favorite perfume and having them engraved with their name and a few pretty flowers engraved around the label. You can find perfume bottle engraving on Etsy. Both of them keep their perfume bottles out on display. One in the bathroom and one on her vanity in her “beauty room”. I figure it’s just a little something extra to elevate their decor and will be used for a long time.
    I also plan on paying for their hair, makeup and robes.
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