Hi this is not a question for me, but my best friend getting married in 4 months.
Our good friend “Claire” who is a bridesmaid has been extremely difficult and secretive. Everything that the bride has planned, this bridesmaid Claire, has not yet made it to any event. Claire had an issue from the beginning, that the bride just so happened to get engaged the same weekend as Claire’s bridal shower (the future bride was “stealing” her weekend). Bride didn’t want to make a big deal out of it, we know Claire is a little egocentric. Next we find out that Claire has worn the bridesmaid dress to a major event &posted it all over social media 6 months before the actual wedding. Bride was upset, but didn’t really say much to Claire. Now Claire has secretly told other bridesmaids... not the bride... that she can’t come to the bridal shower (that she knew about over a year ago...) because it is her anniversary week... didn’t know that was a thing lol. Just looking for advice!! I don’t know if I’m upset because our friend stinks, or if I’m being petty. Should we say nothing and let her show up to the wedding as a bridesmaid, or do something about it?
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