Hi Everyone,
So I have a new dilemma on top of everything else going on. So I have 3 bridesmaids which includes my maid of honor and one of my bridesmaids is in the Navy (currently taking classes to be commissioned but still technically active duty). Currently she submitted her leave 2 weeks ago which was denied and they said it can be reconsidered closer to the date, which she is suppose to come to FL 7/13 for the 7/17 wedding. I am so nervous about her getting the leave approved. Either way, me and my Fiance decided we can't just postpone since everyone who is set to come has everything scheduled and booked, plus I have paid for everything except my last venue payment which is due 7/3. At this point since the state is allowing the weddings, I don't even know if postponing is an option that wouldn't cost even more money. So I guess my overall question is what should I do if she is literally not able to make it because the Navy won't let her leave? Should I pay her back for everything she has paid for the wedding (dress, shoes, etc.) I don't know what the proper procedure is for a situation like this. I am devastated, and still hopeful all at the same time that once the military travel ban is expired on June 30th, they might reconsider. And honestly postponing at this point isn't a guarantee either since things are expected to increase again in the fall during regular flu and cold season. Fiance has already stated he will not postpone for a year.