Bridesmaid Proposal Box too cheap?

Omg do not send your friends confetti.

Just call them up and ask them.

You can call them and ask them! All 11 for $0.00

This would be so messy for them to clean up. Just call. and wait. a year out is really soon to ask.

I sent my BM's a nice card asking them.

I'm sorry but bust the ballon filled with confetti sounds like a kids birthday party with a pinata.

Seems overpriced for just a balloon. there are tons of funny "be my bridesmaid" cards on etsy. i'd prefer that to glitter all over my house.

If you are worried about costs I would shrink your bridal party. Even 8 is A LOT so in the next 6 months I would weed out some people

ETA I hate popping balloons and slot of other people do too, so maybe re think it a bit

We don't even have 11 people in our entire wedding party including us, our BMs/GMs, the officiant, and the parents. I'm on Team Phone Call. Also Team If You're On A Budget Cut Your Party, but that's probably neither here nor there.

No offense, but it sounds like you're asking them to prom?

Not to mention that sounds very messy. Just get them something small, you don't need to go all out. I called and personally asked my girls, I got them kimono robes that I'll give them when it gets closer. You don't want to ask so soon, remember a lot can change from now until then, I'd wait a little longer.

Yes I know 11 is crazy. He has a lot of close friends that he felt he couldn't say no to. In "budget" I meant budget for the boxes lol the wedding budget has been set and going good so far! I didn't know it was too soon to ask. Some of them have kids and I wanted to be sure to ask in advance so be sure everyone has time to save money. The engagement party was set for Christmas eve is that too early too?!

I did not propose to my bridesmaids. I face-timed them all.

My friend did "propose" to her BMs with a nice card. $100 is a waste of money, you'll need it for other wedding activities, trust me.

I proposed to each of my ladies, literally. They loved it and cried, took pictures, jumped up and down, etc. They each had a box filled with things that either trigger great memories between us or things I know they love. I also only have 3 and money wasn't much of a factor.

With that being said, if your heart is set on giving them "something" (tangible that is), write them each a note asking them to be there for you and why they are that important to you.

I can't say you don't have 11 people who would really and truly be there for you in your darkest moments (my criteria for choosing my bridal party) but hey... I'm stressed out just THINKING about trying to get 11 women on one accord for ANYTHING.

Do what makes you happy, but leave confetti out of it, please.

Way too early to ask. Is there a reason you're asking so many BM? I don't have that many people that I like! haha! No, seriously though, these are people who will be in pictures you will look at for the rest of your life; are you sure that in 2, 5, 10 years you will still be friends with all everyone? Remember that you will probably be getting all 11 of these people a gift (which, if you just spend 40 for each person is going to add up quickly)! You will also probably be paying for flowers for each of these people, rehearsal dinner food and drinks, if you are getting a limo for transportation the vehicle will need to accommodate a potentially 24 + person bridal party). Anyway, long story short, I'd definitely wait til maybe 8 months before your wedding to ask.

Personally, I hate confetti and it's a pain to clean up. Just my opinion though.

You are asking waaaaaaaaaaaaay too early.

That is a BIG bridal party. Think of bouquets, meals, their dates' meals and gifts. And drama to the holy heavens.

Confetti blows the goat.

Call or go see them...in the New Year.

Omg ignore everyone telling you how many people you need in your party. They don't know you. Also, everyone on this site hates proposals.

Do what feels good to you! You know your friends and the vibe you want to send. No such thing as too cheap, they'll never know! I did mini wine bottles with labels and a card- under $40 for 4 bridesmaids. Win win!

OMG Rebecca.

Your engagement party is Christmas Eve. I'm sorry but that is SO inconsiderate, especially how you just stated many of your BP have children.

I agree with what's been said here. If you are on a budget, skip it. It's the latest trend that is not necessary. If you really wanted to do it, check out Etsy for beautiful custom designed cards that will be more meaningful to each girl and more budget friendly. Also, as others have said, 11 is way too many. If you are requiring them to have their hair and makeup done you have to pay for it, same for specific shoes and accessories. Also, many brides today are picking up the costs for optional items for their bridesmaids so you might feel pressured to do so as your day gets closer. For instance, I'm paying for accommodations for 2 nights, hair/makeup, fur stoles and their jewelry - but I only have 3 bridesmaids so I can do this within my budget! I couldn't imagine 11!

ETA: I don't hate proposals. I sent each of my bridesmaids a beautiful keepsake gift box with items in it found on Etsy. I probably spent around $100 for my 3 BMS, 3 flower girls, and a ring bearer. But I sent these items after I had already asked them.

We have a estimated guest list of 255...you guys are right this should be the least of my worries. I know they would say yes regardless of how I ask. I guess I got caught up in the hype, I think I will send them each a nice card in the mail maybe on new years? Also the engagement party was a tacky Christmas sweater party Dec 23 but now I don't think I will have that either... thanks

@christy I LOVE that idea. How cute!

DONT SEND CONFETTI. I got all my girls a robe I got on sale for $6 each, then I ironed on their first initial. Cost me I think $3 for the pack of letters. Plus two 5-pack blank notes. Wrote a heartfelt note to each. Mailed all out for $8. Gave two in person, mailed 3. No need to spend so much