Edit: The original discussion was cut off so adding more context.
I have two friends I want to ask to be my bridesmaid in person. The problem is the only time I will see Friend 1 in person is at our Friend 2's wedding which is coming up in a couple of weeks. Otherwise, I have no idea when I will see her in person again as she lives far. I can see Friend 2 whenever as she lives close to me. I want to know if it is possible to ask Friend 1 in person that weekend or is it not possible?
Context
1) The wedding has before and after wedding events that weekend (i.e. post wedding brunch, rehearsal dinner etc).
2) The earliest I will see friend 2 is getting nails done the morning before rehearsal. I can ask her then and ask about asking Friend 1 that weekend, but will that take away from Friend 2's day?
3) I could mail Friend 1's bridesmaid proposal box, just I wouldn't be able to ship the champagne.
I love both my friends dearly and only want to do what is best that no one's feelings are hurt 
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