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Rosalie
Dedicated July 2023

Bridesmaid seems upset about the fact I'm not having a moh

Rosalie, on December 3, 2022 at 4:56 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 2

The first thing you should know is that my family has a lot of drama. Particularly between my two sisters, they love each other, but they are both hotheads and I've always got caught in the crossfire. They start arguments about random things, ever since we were all wee ones there has always been something going on. Its been going well for the past few years, they've been getting along a lot better. When I got engaged, I was concerned about choosing a MOH because it would probably cause some sort of drama.


I eventually got fed up with the choice and decided to not have one. I just have bridesmaids right now and I'm happy with that choice. All things are going well between my sisters, they haven't flipped out about anything and I'm glad my decision kept the peace.


But one of my other bridesmaids seems a bit upset at me because of that decision. She's a close friend of mine and has never really been too much of a jealous one at that. She seemed rattled when I said I wasn't having a MOH and has been slightly passive aggressive for a while. I want her in my wedding party as a bridesmaid because I care about her deeply, but I'm not sure how to approach her or fix this situation.


What should I do?

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Latest activity by Jacks, on December 4, 2022 at 12:42 PM
  • Erin
    Super May 2022
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    First I want to say that you’ve done nothing wrong. It’s your wedding and how you arrange your bridal party is your choice alone. The reaction is her problem alone. She is the one choosing to make a problem out of something that shouldn’t be a problem. I’m sorry she’s acting this way towards you. I’d say keep going about all your activities as normal. What she wants is for you to ask her what’s wrong so that she can complain to you about your choice and ask that you make her maid of honor. Don’t let her have that. If she ends up getting frustrated and brings it up, don’t let your response be an apology. Simply say “this is how I wanted to pick my bridal party.”
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    I agree. You’ve done nothing wrong. If she asks just calmly say that I was what you wanted and that everyone is important to you.

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