Hey all,
I am really hurt and confused about my relationship with one of my bridesmaids. She and I have been friends for over 13 years and ever since I started dating my FH 3 years ago, she has been different towards me. She went so far as to tell me last year she didn’t think we should be together because she just “didn’t know him” and when they met, he “didn’t ask her enough questions.” He is so kind and wonderful, and I don’t know another person in the world who doesn’t love him.
FH invited her to attend the proposal and the engagement party, which was a sort of truce because he knew she wasn’t particularly supportive. She attended and seemed to be over herself. Last night, I asked her and another BM to be part of our wedding with a cute gift box and a card, which she said she loved. I also confided in her about some issues we were having with my future MIL, and how I had been stressed about that relationship. We also discussed her own dating drama and family stuff going on.
After she left left my house, she started texting my roommate about how she didn’t want to hear about all my drama and she didn’t want to be the sounding board for all of it. I heard her vent, and I thought it was a safe place for me to do the same. My roommate quickly shut her down and said that it was their place as friends and bridesmaids to be supportive friends no matter what, and that my in-laws’ drama shouldn’t affect her anyway.
I don’t want to throw my roommate under the bus for telling me about this, so I feel awkward addressing it with her. Do you think she’s jealous or is there a bigger problem? She tends to hate anyone and everything that gets my attention over her (she even hated my dog at one point because I talked about him too much!) Do I just brush it off as jealousy? Refrain from talking about anything to her anymore? I’ve noticed a change in our friendship and I don’t see us being very close after I get married and move to live with my FH. But this isn’t the first time she has gossiped about me to another one of my friends and it hurts.
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