So one of my bridesmaids who is one of my best friends is dating one of FH's groomsmen. I won't go into major details, but there have been some issues as of this weekend between the two of them. Like, possible relationship-ending things.... Everything escalated yesterday after things were found on a cell phone, etc., so needless to say I was over at her apartment last night helping her calm down.
They live together but work opposite schedules so they haven't had much of a chance to talk. My bridesmaid is hoping things will work out but you just never know. She has promised me that it won't effect the wedding, but I have them paired together for walking down the aisle and our bridal party entrance. I know this can be an easy change, but I don't want to make the whole thing awkward in general for them. My fiance is convinced that the groomsman will bail on the wedding day, but I told him if he was truly your friend he wouldn't do that.
I really hope for their sake (and for ours) that things work out! But in the meantime should I have a backup plan if the groomsman backs out or if they break up?
Edited to add: Our numbers are already uneven - I have 8 girls and he has 6 guys!