Bridesmaids and Groomsmen Switched

Oh, I never even thought about it that way, my FH would not like the idea, as long as your FH agrees, go with it.

I suggest this all the time, in addition to switching up the family sides so the brides' guests are behind the groom and the groom's guests behind the bride. LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!

I always thought of the bridesmaids and groomsmen standing up for the bride or groom... Like as a "I'm on your side" type of thing.

Mine were behind me in case I locked my knees and passed out...I figured my sister/MOH is observant enough to catch me, whereas I wasn't so sure about the BIL/best man.

Course if i switch them then i will have no one to fluff when my train when i move around. But it wont be a long ceremony and i don't really care if my train is not perfect while up there.

I'm going to need my BFF beside me to hand me tissues, to hand her my flowers, to fix my gown, and if our daughter gets wandering, to reel her back in. I don't want her on his side. She's got WORK to do.

I love the idea, hmmm might have to try it.

I never thought of this idea either but I'm with Tara ... my MOH is definitely going to have to hold my bouquet at some points and probably hand me some tissues LOL and I wouldn't mind if she fixed the train on my dress when we have to move. We're doing a traditional Catholic wedding also so I'm not sure how that would work out if they switched. I do see a valid reason though.