I always dreamt of getting married and I always thought my closest friends would be just as excited for me. However, since I got engaged ... there has been a change of energy and they aren’t as involved in my planning as I would like/ plus they lack enthusiasm. The women closest to me are the ones less interested.
I selected my bridal party last month, and 3 of the women are from my fiancées side , 1 friend whom I’ve been close with for 7yrs, and 2 friends whom I’ve known since high school (whom I mentioned above). All of the women get along except the 2 that I’ve known the longest... when I asked them why their energy seemed off/attitude with other bridal members, the response was “I didn’t sign up for new friends”. Also, when my maid of honor tries to plan with them, she receives push back.
I really envisioned togetherness, good vibes. I wanted the different women to come together do brunch , do dress fittings, etc. but the energy from some of them just kills the mood (and honestly their behaviors have begun making others uncomfortable)... I honestly don’t know what to do. I approached one of them with my concerns and I was disrespected by her in how she spoke to me. It’s a bit much honestly. I don’t want to remove anyone but I just wish everyone was friendly and enthused/ and express interest in this journey with me.(Sorry I just needed to vent)
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