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Expert January 2019

Bridesmaids divorcing

Anakaren , on July 1, 2018 at 9:45 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4
Hi everyone !!!.....I’m a bit lost and confused I’m not sure what to do one of my bridesmaids is getting divorce so here’s the story ....my fiancé best friend is a groomsmen in our wedding and I had asked his wife to be a bridesmaids I didn’t know her well but I felt bad leaving her out anyway my fiancé found out that their getting divorce this Monday and his best friend told him that he doesn’t want her in the wedding but I don’t know how to go about this I don’t think Right now is the right time to ask her any questions about if she will still stay in the bridal party I know that for sure but than her soon to be ex husband asked us to kick her out which would make me the bad guy should I do what the ex husband is telling me to do or just not do anything my wedding is six months away and I’m not close to the girl just asked her to step in because she’s married to my fiancé best friend that was the only reason she’s in and yes I know I shouldn’t add random people but I felt bad

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Latest activity by Mim, on July 2, 2018 at 8:45 AM
  • Angela
    Devoted July 2018
    Angela ·
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    Give it a month or so. Chances are she’ll drop out on her own. If she doesn’t, tell her that you think it would be better for everyone involved if she would step down. Hopefully she’s not the kind of person to make drama for the sake of drama. Good luck!

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    Expert January 2019
    Anakaren ·
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    Thank you I’ll defiantly wait and see what happens
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    Honestly your FH's bff needs to have a chat with his soon to be ex wife about dropping out herself. If I was in her shoes I wouldn't want to be in a wedding with my ex husband esp if I was only in it because of him. Unless she's super petty and wants to stay in just to tick him off. But yeah HE needs to talk to her first about it. He shouldn't be putting that on you.

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    Don't give it a second thought. The groomsman was out of line with his ask. I suspect that as the dust begins to settle she'll choose to not participate on her own. Don't be the bad guy, you'll only look like a jerk.
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