I seem to have a very controversial opinion on who should pay for bridesmaids' dresses and I was wondering if anyone out there agrees with me. I personally can't ask my bridesmaids to pay for a dress that I want them to wear. Instead, I would rather buy the dresses for them, if I'm going to be particular about the color and style that I want. But people seem to be fighting me tooth and nail on this, arguing, "That's just not the way it's done."
The way I see it, though, is my 'maids are doing me a favor by agreeing to be in my wedding and to help and support me during the day. Why should that favor come with a price tag, when in any other social situation that would be unacceptable? You wouldn't invite a friend over for dinner but then tell them they have to bring their own $100 bottle of wine, would you? Why are bridesmaids' dresses any different?
Any thoughts? I'd be interested to hear what you think on the subject. =)