Originally we were going to get married local this month and so I had asked my bridesmaids and maid of honor a year ago to be a part of the wedding, but with COVID, we had to cancel and postpone our wedding. Now we are doing a destination wedding in Summer of 2022. Originally I had 1 MOH and 7 bridesmaids . I had wanted to include 2 more bridemaids (close friends), but I had to keep the numbers down because my Fiancé only had 5 groomsmen. I have since had a falling out with 3 bridesmaids, and so no longer want them in the wedding. I look at it like yay now I can include my other 2 who I wanted, but how do I go about the situation of not wanting them to feel like 2nd string?
Also now that it's a destination wedding, I don't want everyone to feel obligated to go because it will be a lot of money! Would love some advice on how to go about the whole thing and I guess in a sense "re-ask" (and ask) them to be bridesmaids?