Hello ladies! I mostly just want to vent about one of my bridesmaids on here to let it all out. I have a bridesmaid that I’ve been friends with since middle school, and she’s always made not the best decisions and is one that drops her friends when she makes new ones but when the new ones disappear she comes back to being friends.
After high school I really thought she changed and we got closer than ever. She got engaged and asked me to be a bridesmaid and then I got engaged and asked her. It was so exciting to be planning together and going through the stress with someone. Well she ended up breaking up with her fiancé and after that any time I talked about wedding stuff she just changed the subject.
Well after she broke off her engagement she went back to not really talking to me unless she didn’t have other friends. She shaved her head which annoyed me a little because come time for my wedding it’ll be in the really awkward stage. I know I have no say and it’s honestly none of my business but it was a little annoying. She started talking to a guy pretty much right after and then a month later I met the guy. He seems like a good guy honestly, but two days after I met him she moved 8 hours away to live with him. She didn’t even tell me ahead of time. She had mentioned that she was thinking of moving but I thought she’d wait until her lease was up. I found out she was moving from Snapchat. Now every time she comes home she doesn’t tell me and she is slowly stopping snapchatting me. The only time we talk is when I text her first. I honestly just feel like the friendship isn’t with it at this point and I’m not getting anything out of it other than stress. I feel like she’s back to making a lot of choices that I don’t agree with and if someone says something to her she quits talking to them so I can’t even tell her that I worry about some of them. I honestly am waiting to see if she stops talking to me completely so I can just replace her spot. It’s honestly just my stress getting to me and things will go back to normal but we’ll see.
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