Bridesmaids stressing me Out😣

So I asked 5 of my friends to be bridesmaids. You know people I thought would be super supportive... unfortunately, these ladies have given me such a hard time. After one month one told me my wedding wasn't a priority for her, all because I was trying to reach her with questions during the dress selection process. Another always finds a way to make it about her and her upcoming surgery...told me she didn't like my dress and is kinda rude to everyone, even the lady at the bridal shop. And the cake topper my moh was all on board with ideas, helping and then boom she stop. She told me she was transitioning (in a breakup) and she will try to be present. She doesn't call as much and has put communication with the other ladies (with regards to bachelorette party) on hold. It's so tense when we do talk, and unfortunately we've had a few arguments. I understand how she feels and have always been there for her during these times. You know, keep her busy, take her out but I can't now as I'm in full wedding grind. I was hoping she could push through. BUT IDK, it's like I'm afraid to show my complete and utter happiness around her because of her situation. I tried speaking to her and she said no she was fine. I know she is happy for me, I just don't think she knows how to be😕

My wedding is in January.... this process was suppose to be fun. My only stress was to come from vendors😢 missing my #moh