Bridesmaids v Groomsmen

View Quoted Comment We are all over the place. We started planning early thank god we did tho. Nobody warned me how expensive they are. But I’m going to ask him what he doing or if everybody knows already

View Quoted Comment Yeah he probably gone laugh because I’m so extra lol. I’m sure he texted them lol

View Quoted Comment Exactly this is definitely going to be funny

My FH asked his sister to be the best man they have an amazing relationship, she's down to suit up lol. I'm thinking the best woman will get a gift along with my MOH.

View Quoted Comment Lol most guys are super simple!

My fiance sent a funny card to each one of his groomsmen! He found the card on Etsy.

We both did simple cards. His had something about I know of a great party with an open bar. We didn't do gifts or anything. But we are fairly low key people.

My FH went out with each of them and asked them over dinner/during an activity they were doing. However, he is having a best woman (his sister) rather than a best man, so he did something different for her. She had just had a baby so we had one of my friends make a shirt to put on the baby that said “Will you be Uncle Jake’s best woman?” She cried, she loved it.

My fiancé just sent a text haha but he’s already told his best friend he would be best man years before we were engaged. I did too for my bridesmaids/MOH to make sure they would be up for it before I officially asked. I’ve been putting together my bridesmaid proposal boxes for the past month and he was like “am I supposed to send something?” I might send them a gift “from him” because his best man’s girlfriend is my MOH and he’ll see her gifts from me lol.

Bridesmaid proposal boxes are a new trend ( and one I hope will die soon, ) and lots of women do as they and groom's have always done, tell them when it is, and ask if they will stand up with them.
If my husband ever got a CUTE request, he would surely turn it down for fear it would lead to gift shop gifts over and over, group shopping, manicures, artistic beard trimming, and shorty robes for a sleepover. Just straight out ask.

I mailed presents to my bridesmaids (since we were under a stay at home order), and he mailed cards to his groomsmen. We would have preferred asking them in person, but that just wasn’t an option for us. Happy mail was the next best thing!

FH just told them he was engaged & if they wanted to be in his wedding lmao One person got a text haha Then again, when everyone found out I was getting married, some expected to be included right away lol

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That's an excellent idea.

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Exactly I'm like my girls appear to be fighting over the MOH title

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Why did this reply make me laugh so hard. I agree but I am doing something special for the girls. gift boxes get expensive probably won't go all out.

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Lol definitely. that is funny!

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Omg Allie that's beautiful.

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You just gave me an idea. lol

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I didn't think about that lol he is way more low-key than I am

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That's adorable