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SilverSeason120
Dedicated November 2017

Bridesmaids wearing different shoes?

SilverSeason120, on February 24, 2017 at 1:28 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 51

FH's sister who is standing up in the wedding has had numerous issues over the years with one of her feet including multiple surgeries that does not allow her to wear high heels. That being said, is anyone else's BM's wearing different shoes? Honestly, we don't know yet if the girls will be wearing...

FH's sister who is standing up in the wedding has had numerous issues over the years with one of her feet including multiple surgeries that does not allow her to wear high heels. That being said, is anyone else's BM's wearing different shoes? Honestly, we don't know yet if the girls will be wearing long dresses or short dresses, but this has been on my mind lately!

Thanks in advance Smiley smile

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
    Bemyguest ·
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    I've been in both long and short dresses and been told "where X color shoe." For me, I told my girls nude. I don't care about heel height. It's easier that way.

    If you're going g to require something special, you pay for it.

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  • CoffeeNColor
    Master August 2017
    CoffeeNColor ·
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    I told my girls flats/sandals in a neutral color. I didn't care.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I've never had to wear matching shoes as a bridesmaid! For my wedding I told the girls "black shoes", and in the past I've been asked to wear black or nude shoes!

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    Yeah, I just gave my girls a color and they can choose which shoes they want

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  • xray12280
    Master June 2017
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    I told my bridesmaids to get silver shoes. I don't care what the heel or toe or anything is. As long as they are not flip flops or make that flip flop sound.

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  • Krystal
    VIP May 2017
    Krystal ·
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    My bridesmaids are wearing long dresses, but with a split. I'm not pressed about what shoes they wear since it's a beach wedding and we'll likely be barefoot or wearing barefoot sandals.

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  • FarmWife
    Devoted July 2017
    FarmWife ·
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    My bridesmaids are all wearing short dresses. I just told them any silver sandal will work. I don't think that everyone has to match.

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  • Katie
    Devoted May 2017
    Katie ·
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    Mine are wearing whatever shoes they want

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  • P
    Master April 2018
    Powers2 ·
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    I'm telling my BMs to wear what they like and feel comfortable in.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    My BMs are wearing whatever black shoe they want. I actually asked them all ahead of time what neutral color shoes they had/were willing to wear and they all said they wanted to wear black.

    I've never been in a wedding where I had to wear a specific shoe. I was always able to pick my own shoe/wear one I already owned, so long as it was a specific color. In one wedding, the bride requested a black shoe, and in another the bride requested a silver shoe.

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  • jnicollea
    Devoted August 2018
    jnicollea ·
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    So, I am letting my bridesmaids pick their dresses (they must be long, same color and material), shoes, and hair! I'm probably crazy, but I would rather have them comfortable than self conscious at my wedding.

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
    Melody ·
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    I said any black shoe.

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  • TIFFANY
    Super July 2017
    TIFFANY ·
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    So my girls are wearing short dresses and due to it being 10 girls and their styles all over the place i gave them swatches of the color and told them to find shoes in that color.

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    I just asked my girls to get silver in whatever style they were comfortable in. I have been in multiple weddings that have done the same thing with both short and long dresses

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  • vghjfcxgxfgdh
    VIP June 2017
    vghjfcxgxfgdh ·
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    Im giving my BM's the option of flats or heels. Both weddings I have been in have been like this

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  • Mb2Md
    VIP November 2022
    Mb2Md ·
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    My girls had a long dress and all wore different shoes.

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  • SLR
    Super November 2016
    SLR ·
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    My girls all wore silver in whatever style/height they wanted.

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  • MarissaFromOregon
    Expert June 2017
    MarissaFromOregon ·
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    My bridesmaids are wearing knee length gowns and I told them nude shoes in any style. I want them to wear what is comfortable for them. Especially if they own some already that they can use.

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  • ToBeMrsWatson
    Super August 2017
    ToBeMrsWatson ·
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    Im buying my BM's shoes.... two want to wear heels and the other one does not wear heels at all..... so she and the jr bm will be getting flats....

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  • TimeLadyErika
    Master May 2017
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    I just told my ladies black dress shoes. I don't care if they're heels or flats.

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