I'm getting married next year, and plan on asking my friends to be bridesmaids come January/February. I'm planning on 6 bridesmaids, but I have 4 girlfriends that I absolutely love and want included. However, I don't want 10 bridesmaids to stand up there! I want to give bridesmaid gift boxes when I ask and I wanted to give gift boxes to those 4 girls as well asking them to be in the "wedding party" or being the "I Do Crew". Would that come across to them as asking them to be bridesmaids? I was going to include a letter in their box explaining that I wanted them to come to the bach party, get dressed with us that day & be included in everything they just don't stand up there. How do I word that? Has anyone else seen this done?
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