Bridezilla???

My minimony is less than 7 weeks away and our bigger wedding is in March. I've actually been doing pretty good so far lol

View Quoted Comment Congrats! Not going to lie even know i know we not haveing a really big wedding 75 people was still alot! I have been telling other girls who thinking of getting married to if you want a big go for it but money wrise just go to the cort house so much easier and cheaper lol but all in all i wouldnt tarde this for the world it will still be the wedding of my dreams

My wedding is over a year away but people have already been making expensive demands 😅 And when it’s from a future in law, you have to be nice haha. I feel like my in laws have super high expectations yet they aren’t offering any financial support to accommodate their wants/demands. They want me to have 2 wedding dresses and 3 wedding cakes for starters 🙄 The stress and pressure of feeling to impress them has brought out a different side of me. Nearly everything I want seems wrong to them but I’m learning that I cannot make everyone happy! I no longer bring up wedding Details to anyone and when they ask/make suggestions I say something like “I’ll keep that in mind” or “I already have a plan for that”. The day is super important and although I understand it’s a big day for the parents too, it’s YOUR day! I hope all goes smoothly for you!

View Quoted Comment I couldnt agree more i had the same problem with mom shes wasnt mean about it but she dont understand where me and my FH are coming from she didnt agree with some of his ideas he had and yet i did change his mind on some thing or me and him compromise she just dont get that i want his say so on some things to she thinks the bride should just plan it and the groom just goes with whatever she says and we ant like that so go on and do what you guys what everyone will see how happy you guys are and it will all be good at the end

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Yes ours isn't too big, were expecting 100 guests. But yes definitely way easier and less expensive at the courthouse. Except the courthouses in my state aren't performing any ceremonies because of COVID.

Not at all, I have never been more calm and collected in planning this. Maybe it's because I plan events part-time as part of my job. But this has absolutely been the easiest, the most stressful part was waiting for our venue to reopen during Covid to get a contract signed and secure.

Absolutely aha ! I realized I went crazy with stuff aha

I've only had one crazy day. It was the day we decided to "postpone" our large celebration to next year. I think I lost it because now it means planning a second wedding and my brain jumped straight into the logistics of it all, so I just broke down. We're keeping the one this September to just family and wedding party, but all of the details are staying the same (venue, food, etc.), just scaled down. So now when we do this again next year it's like starting from scratch. I just want planning to be over, but on the bright side everything is starting to feel less stressful and I finally figured out why: I'm not stressing the small one because if something goes wrong, only the people we love most will see it and they'll be supportive. I'm not stressing the one next year because I'll already have the pretty pictures and amazing food from the real wedding. We've even decided to expand the guest list for the one next year to include people we didn't want but our families did because there's no way for them to ruin our special day because it's just the backup.

Honestly, I have not been stressed about the wedding planning too much but everyone assumes I am. It's not actually the wedding that's stressing me out its moving twice in less than a year one right before we get married and 7 months after we get married. Then having my mum being in and out of the hospital with surgeries and everything that's stressing me out. Then I am a dungeon master (yes, this is my choice, I just love D&D), and planning my campaign on top of everything as well as my job is not exactly stress-free. So I get it, trust me. I think I keep forgetting everything that I need to get done and forgetting to buy food and workout and the list goes on and on. I'm at the very end of October and I'm doing my best not to freak out on people LOL You got this though!! We both got this!! It will turn out to be a wonderful day!!

I was at first, but then when we realized it was too much money and stress, we cancelled plans and have decides to elope with or without our parents. Ecer since, I've transformed from a bridezilla to a bridechilla. Lol.

View Quoted Comment Lol i honstly thought about just forgetting it but it would have cost to cancel it ao we just made it smaller witch saved us like 1,000 bucks in the long run

I mean, we're 23 days away and I'm Covid stressed/ guilty vs wedding planning stressed. I feel very bad for ladies who had expectations about their weddings in this time - it's just a poop time all around.
Try to curb your bridal crazies - it'll lead to a happier partner and happier friends/ family.

View Quoted Comment Yess i chouldnt ageee more my best friend is my go to girl to cheer my up when im stressing out well her and my amazing FH i honestly cant thank him enough for keeping me happy with everything

View Quoted Comment Fortunately, I was able to get every cent back from canceling with the venue.
I may have not cancelled if I was going to lose out on money.

View Quoted Comment Yeah but all in all im still happy woth everything and the people there are just amazing they have made everything so easy and help us so much with everythingc