Hi
Apologies in advance for the vent.
My fiance and I have decided to have a destination wedding (Italy) as we are from opposite sides of the world (Ireland and Australia) and thought it would be easier for everyone to travel instead of one family or the other.
The wedding is 16 months away and my brother has said that he and his wife and 2 kids cannot afford to come. I really want the children to be a part of our day as I am really close to them.
He's my only sibling. My brother has a way of always getting his own way so I'm also questioning whether he's saying this just so that my parents will pay for them to go or I cave and pay for them. My parents payed for half of their wedding a few years ago and I know they want to contribute to ours, however I am happy for them to give the money to my brother than to us.
I feel like they are just dismissing our wedding way before I have even sent invites out. They can seem to afford to go on holiday this year. I know that if my sister-in-laws brother got married overseas she wouldn't miss it. My fiance and I have done a lot for them over the years and I am wondering if I am being selfish by expecting him to drag himself and his family to our wedding?
Help!?