Brother as bridesmaid??

As long as you don't make him wear the dress I don't think it matters which side he stands on lol

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Absolutely include him on your side! There's nothing weird about having your brother up there to support you!

I have only 3 bridesmaids and my fiancé has 5 groomsman, so I'm have both my brothers stand on my side!

One of my BFFs is nonbinary and didn't feel comfortable wearing a dress, so they matched the wedding colors but wore a suit instead of a dress, so they half-way matched both sides.

Maybe your brother could do something similar and stand on your side?

My son is going to be my man of honor. I don't think its weird at all.

@EM that is exactly what I was planning on doing! Looks good

I don't think it's weird but I also don't think you need even sides for the longest time I wanted even sides despite my FH's family telling me they wanted me to have more bridesmaids (I wasn't adding anyone just to add anyone..) now one of our groomsmen might have to back out last minute and if that happens whatever we'll be uneven. It's for a good reason so I'm fine with it.

My brother is my maid of honor. I'm calling him my Brian of Honor. I'm super excited for him to be in the wedding. He will be wearing the same tux that the FH's groomsmen are wearing. If you want to do it, have at it!

My brother was my brides-man. He wore a classic black tux like all of the groomsmen, but stood on my side. It was perfect.

I have a bridesman. I almost had a man of honor as well. FH has a groomsmaid.

I have a bridesman and my brother will be an usher (he didn't want to rent a tux or go to the bachelorette party). Definitely include him if you want!

FW and I are each having our brothers and one male friend on each of our sides (plus bridesmaids). It's about what you want, not your mom. I would probably have your brother wear something to match your bridesmaids though if they're wearing a different color than the GM

Just do it, I have a guy and uneven sides. At first the uneven sides bothered me but I had some sense talked into me about just having people you care about up there.

My brother has repeatedly asked me to "Groom of Honor"

I think its a great idea

I don't think it's weird if your brother stands on your side. Just have them each walk down separately.

It's totally fine for your brother to stand on your side as a bridesman.

I think even sides is a really strange "hill to die on", so to speak. If something so small and unimportant bothers you so much that it's non-negotiable... idk , it just seems like a superficial obsession to me. Are you going to add someone else since it'll still be uneven?

We are having a groomswoman. She's gonna wear a dress in the color of the suits

I'm having a bride's man and FH is having a Groom's maid. The groom's maid will wear the same dress as my bridesmaids maids just in the opposite color. My bride's man will wear the opposite color as the groom's men.