My brother and I grew up with a split family. We both had a great upbringing but as with most divorced family’s there has been drama at times. Through out the years there have been small falling outs between my parents and I and my brother and our parents for this or that. The falling out usually didn’t last long and once pride was set aside amends were made. My brother in the past has had falling out with both my mom and my dad and has always taken the longest to mend the relationship. My dad and brother got into an argument over 2 1/2 years ago where hurtful things were said by both people. For the past year and a half my father has been trying to reach out to make amends even flying across the entire country and letting my brother know he is in town if he wants to talk. My brother refuses to talk to him and has cut off everyone on that side of our family including our sisters ages 16. This has been painful to watch as I know my family is hurting because of my brothers decision. I’ve tried talking to him multiple times and he states he hates our father. I have asked that my brother be in the wedding but as things get closer I’m highly considering removing him from the wedding party and uninviting him all together. On a day where love is celebrated and families come together I don’t want brokenness shoved in my face or the faces of my dads side of the family. Very confused on what to do here.
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