Dear Reader,
Im having my destination wedding next year. Im running into an invite issue. My brother just started seeing this new girl like maybe two months ago. She has 2 little ones. The issue is I don't want to invite her and her kids.
1. Me and my future hubby have never met her or her children2. There relationship is very new. (Even if my mom insists they are getting pretty serious)3. Because its a destination wedding there is limited # of people the villa can feed. If she and her kids come we are over the max guest limit and would have to have someone come in and cater all week for every meal.4. Its almost $600 a person to eat for the entire week. (For the villa to feed the guests) We really cant afford to feed 3 more guests.5. We already told FH cousin he cant bring his girlfriend of 5yrs because of these reasons.
We thought about saying she can go but her kids cant. But we have other family members with kids that we have already oked for them to bring. Its only 2 but it seems rude to not let her bring her kids but let my other brother and FH brother bring there kids. How do we explain (without potentially damaging my relationship with my brother) that he cant bring them to the wedding.
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