Budget busting or just Elope

Hi lady I am stressing now about should we continue on planning for our wedding for next year or just go and Elope? Here's why we have found a venue that has both things that we want outside ceremony and reception inside.But now here with all of the other stuff comes in paying on the space and half price for DJ, Photographers, caterer, bar, dinnerware,cake,decor which some things I have that was 1 running low on so I got it now. But not trying go to fancy or over the top romantic and elegant 2. my wedding dress is done have it accessories. 3. So we are thinking about renting the other elements that we want. Like for our sweetheart table 4.our wedding bands has to be purchased also and officiant which I will find too. And now my fiance is getting a little stress as well certain things we are doing ourselves to save cost like making the bouquets and boutaires for the men. I hear him to don't want to be broke and he wants to do it for me but I want him to be happy too. So ladies should we continue planning or Elope help please