Ok I've been trying to figure out what we want to spend right and it seems everytime in close life asks covid happening throws us a curve ball. What would you say is to much for a venue? Or food? If you pick said budget would you go with a venue you love and can afford or a cheaper option that you s.o has decided would be best? Because 1 they hate spending money 2 they see the price not realizing what all is included in the venue that you both really like and that your payments don't have to be everything up front.
Ok maybe this is a bit of a rant sorry.