I don't know if I'm just not use to seeing a bustle but I hate how it looks. Is this how it's supposed to be? I guess I'm so in love with my train that I'm sad to see it disappear and don't really want to bustle it. But I understands it's not practical when dancing. Any way I can not have it bustled during the bride and groom dance and the father daughter dance? Also a little worried I have some back fat and didn't have that when I first tried the dress on. I've lost weight but she made it tighter than when I first tried it on so that the dress will hold me in. Just wondering if my concerns are practical or am I overthinking it.